She will take care of him. She will know him inside out and she will love his strengths and nurse his weaknesses. She will be loyal to her man and will not hear anything ill about him. Where she suspects that her actions are against his wishes, she will surrender them. He is her alpha and he is her omega. There is no in between. She will be truthful to him. She will calculate his feelings and respect his wishes. Where she finds herself torn between two choices, his is the final word. Her aim is to satisfy him. Her existence is to obey him and to build him an empire. She assists him. She births his children and raises them under his laws. That's what the good woman does. She thinks ahead to make sure he is happy. She introduces new ideas to him, ideas that will be of assistance to him. She is a strong and smart woman.
He will come home to the warmth of her arms and he will sleep in the ecstasy that lies between her thighs. His back will be clothed by the finest fabrics and his face washed with the purest of waters. He will be sent to work with a kiss on the cheek. His aims and ambitions will be catered to and she will listen and advise him while she washes his feet. She will love him. She will wish nothing but the best for him. She feeds him. She makes every meal his favorite. She does not allow any other woman to feed him. He is hers to feed. She uses the best spices and bakes the sweetest treats. They belong to him.
She will pray for him... She prays for her family. She prays for the paths he walks. She prays for the money he brings home. She prays for his colleagues. She prays for riches and for love. She prays for her children. She prays for herself to be a good woman for her man. She prays for protection against the works of Lucifer, that when he wants to meddle in her family may he be burnt by the fire of Christ around their house hold.
She works hard. She trades, sells, receives and negotiates. She does this for her family. All those riches belong to her man. She sacrifices her wishes for her family. She is a good woman. When they speak ill of her man, she ignores them. She protects the image of her husband and sticks by him.
She need not scream about the love she has for her man. Anyone with eyes can see it in her eyes. She is loving. She is kind. She speaks only in affairs that concern her. She rebukes gossip and wrong doing. She knows no other man but him. Her duty is to love him. She is faithful to him, in mind, in body and in heart.
There lies this woman in each and every one of us ladies. We must be careful on who we show her to. We must pray that she finds the good man... Being a good woman is serious work, she is strong and faithful.
The good man leaves everything and everyone and loves her. He loves her publicly. He loves her unconditionally. He appreciates her. He kisses her flaws. He encourages her. He compliments her. He finds her juices sweeter than the best wines. Her skin is his playground. He is content when she is smiling. He provides for her. He lays his head only on her bosom. He is faithful to her. He is weak when she is not near. He cannot wait to meet her warm embrace when he gets home. He longs for her scent when she is in another room. He is completed by her. She reigns his thoughts, body and heart.He is faithful to her. He only longs for her.
When he makes mistakes, he apologises, learns an changes. He works hard. He finds everything that his family needs.
He prays for her. He prays for his family. He prays for his strength. He prays for the good spirits to safe guard his home when he is not there. He takes his family to the house praise. He leads his family in prayers. He is a good man. He resembles himself with Christ and loves his family like Christ loves his people.
Do you think he exists? Nah... All we have are rotten men. Olwabishi. Men that cheat, men that steal our hearts and throw them off the cliff. They don't care. Men who tell us that they love us but sleep with our sisters. men that manipulate us and make us their slaves by lying to us. Men that promise us marriage to suit their selfish needs. They chase, conquer and move on to the next victim. LOL ngyadlala (a little). Our men love with their mouths but not their actions because we don't build our relationships on the rock that is Jesus. We build our relationships on club floors, fancy cars and expensive foods. Sonke siWrong
We have good men... but you know where they are? They are in your friendzone... They are at church, busy praying for a woman just like you...
Never be a good woman to a person that has not asked you to be...
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